I feel so much struggle- being pulled between two worlds. The first where I keep us busy doing the appropriate academics that the government standards and general public would dictate, and one in which I focus on family, character, faith and learn as we go, choosing with utmost care the best (most purposeful) studies. If I choose the latter, does this mean I am neglecting to give my child every opportunity to learn and develop? Can I do both? It all depends on the standard by which I am holding myself to as a parent and mentor. My children will have opportunities, they will meet and exceed educational goals, but my priority has to be "faith, character and life integration."

Our learning must be purposeful. Kevin speaks of his daughter learning to read for the first time at 7 years of age. Hmm, neglectful? On the contrary. So eloquently said, his daughter was blessed by what she learned and in turn will bless others. Read the article because I don't do it justice!

So where do I go from here? Do I have days that are long and all I want is for the children to be busy? Of course. Do I have days (weeks) where I don't want to clean? Yep. Still working on that one. I know that in order to focus on family life I need to have myself in check, my routine, motivation and attitude towards my contribution to the family. My prayer is to abide in the Lord and please Him. Living in the spirit with this perspective will cause my choices- daily and long term- to be the best way for my family.